Boredom is BORING!
Boredom is a result of a lack of external stimulation, so to keep you stimulated every effort will be taken to make this as interesting as possible. There are a few different types of boredom, two that are more common than others. The first is the boredom you experience while waiting for something, such as a doctor appointment. You have to sit and wait and there is nothing to do to fill your time, so you get bored. The second type of boredom is what you experience when you are not satisfied with what you are doing or your life. There is not enough stimulation to keep your brain actively engaged, therefore you get bored. Boredom, unlike other emotional dilemmas, is easily solved by taking simple steps to engage your body, your mind, or both. Loneliness can contribute to boredom.
Boredom is too often caused when the life you lead becomes routine. Every day is the same thing. You get up, clean or work, maybe exercise, have breakfast, run an errand or two. Your days become predictable. As a result, they all seem to mesh together. You are bound to get bored because you are not stimulating your mind. The solution is simple and that is to throw something random into your day. Plan the parts of your day that are essential, but for the rest of the day, throw caution to the wind and see where it may lead. Spontaneity is a wonderful way to kill boredom. This doesn't mean you have to do something dangerous, but do something that doesn't follow the rut you've been in. Go out to lunch, get a manicure, go for a hike, or read a good book. As long as it is different from your normal routine, Arrangement Seekers can work to kill boredom.
It is a commonly held belief that the five people you surround yourself with most are the five people you are most likely to be like. So if your friends are upbeat, cheerful people that like to do things, you'll start to take on some of their traits. If these are your friends, you're probably not bored. On the other hand, if the people you associate with prefer to sit around talking about the same old things, never making any changes, you've probably gotten into the rut of doing nothing. There is no stimulation in this environment and you get bored, fast. You don't have to change your friends, but you may want to add a few go-getters to your circle. Involve some people in your life that like to do and try new things, people that want to learn and experience everything. Grab onto their coattails and experience life with them. Chances are that boredom will become something you'll rarely experience.
It's important to remember that boredom isn't all bad. It can be frustrating, yes, but it can actually be beneficial to you. Boredom enables your brain to make connections of your seemingly random thought processes, oftentimes bringing clarity of thought. When you are bored a different part of your brain is stimulated, one that works on a more internal level. Boredom causes this part of your brain to fire up and look for solutions to the boredom so you begin to experience more creative thought processes. Rather than getting frustrated when you feel bored, sit back, relax, and allow your brain to work through these processes. Make your time of boredom a time of reflection; ideas of genius are often found in times of reflection. Boredom can also be beneficial because it helps to disengage the brain from its surroundings and go into sleep mode, so to speak. When the brain is stimulated, it's nearly impossible to fall asleep so boredom is like an emotional sleep aid. Sometimes boredom is a tool the body will use in order to induce rest. Without proper rest you cannot properly function in your body or your mind. If it takes a bit of boredom to make you rest, it's worth it.
Rather than dreading times of boredom, think of creative ways to fill that time, or go spend some time in nature. Since boredom is simply a lack of stimulation, all you have to do is find or create stimulation. Get your mind working, thinking, and creating, as it has been designed to do, and boredom will quickly become a thing of the past. Learn to enjoy the times you are alone, doing nothing, and thinking nothing. For many people this is the recipe for boredom, but if you can grow to appreciate this time, you may find that your thought processes work better, that you feel more rested, and that your life doesn't feel quite so rushed and hectic.
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