A cheap date can be defined a couple ways. A cheap date can be someone who gives it away on the first date or it can mean someone who doesn’t mind going to McDonalds for a one dollar cheeseburger and some fries. If you’re one of those women who don’t mind saving your date a buck or two, you sure aren’t doing any favors for the women who prefer to be wined and dined. That’s not whined and dined women that's wined and dined. Being wined and dined means that your date needs to have more than a couple of dollars in his pocket. He needs to have enough cash or plenty of plastic to show you a good time. Most women do not want to date a cheapskate. If you’re one of those women who like to date cheapskates, you are ruining it for those of us who want to be treated like queens. So do us all a favor and kick these cheap schmucks to the curb. You are sending them the wrong message. You are telling them that we deserve nothing more than a fast food date and that we don’t deserve to have their hard earned cash spent on us. In fact, if that message is being sent then another one is right behind that one: that we are all together cheap and we’ll sleep with them from the get go. For all you cheapskate women who are dating cheap men; please stop ruining it for those of us who actually have class.
If you’re one of those women with class and think you deserve more than a cheap date, then there are some red flags you should look out for. First and most importantly: does your man have a job? If you ask where he works and he replies with, “I’m in between jobs”-run like the wind. This is an indicator that he hasn’t worked for awhile and probably won’t for a while either. Who wants to date a man with no money? Red flag number two: If he shows up at your place on a bike (not a road hog and actual bicycle) then you can sure he has no money or he can’t drive due to a DUI. Now you’ve been hit with a double whammy. You have a poor drunk man about to enter your world. If that isn’t enough to put on the brakes I don’t know what is! The third red flag has nothing to do with him being a cheapskate where money is concerned, but it is an indicator that he is a cheap floozy. If he has a ring on his finger or he won’t take you to public places chances are 99 to 1 that he is married or he has a girl already. Beware if he he’s always showing up late at night-his woman is sleeping and it’s the only time he has to spend with yours truly.
If you’ve been in any of these predicaments chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on. Please do all the classy women out there a favor and stop dating these cheap floozy men. We want men with class and some cash in the bank accounts. We want men who drive cars not tricycles with horns. We want men who are willing to wait awhile before the car windows get foggy. We want real men who don’t cheat on their women. Get some class ladies and date real men, not little boys who want their mommies to take care of them. Peter Pan belongs in a book not on your front doorstep! When it’s all said and done, it doesn’t pay to be a cheapskate.